Maya. Islaamku wuxuu mamnuucayaa xadgudubka guurka. Nabigu ﷺ marnaba ma garaacin haweeney ama adeege, wuxuuna yidhi, 'Kuwa idinka ugu wanaagsan waa kuwa xaasaskooda ugu wanaagsan.' Aayadda dadku soo xigtaan (4:34) si weyn ayaa loo qaldaa.
Jawaabta oo dhammaystiran
Aayadda 4:34 waxay taxaysaa tallaabooyin ninka marka xaaskiisu aysan daacad ahayn: waanee, kadibna kala fogow sariirta oo, tallaabadii ugu dambaysay, 'daraba'. Culimadu taariikhda oo dhan waxay yidhaahdeen ma oggola waxyeello. Nabigu ﷺ wuu diiday garaacidda wuxuuna yidhi 'kuwa sidaas sameeya ma aha kuwa idinka ugu wanaagsan'. Kuwa oggolaada xitaa, sida xeerarka qaar ee caadiga ah, waxay yidhaahdeen waa inay noqotaa mid astaan ah, sida ushaq ilkaha, waa inaanay xanuunin ama calaamad reebin, waana inaan marna wejiga la saarin. Culimo casri ah oo badan ayaa 'daraba' u akhriya macnaha kala fogaanshaha ama ka tagidda.
Waxa hubaal ah waa in Muslimiinta lagu amray inay xaasaskooda la noolaadaan roonaan, iyo in geysashada waxyeello jidh ama maskaxeed ay mamnuuc tahay. Rabshadda guriga waa dembi aan Muslim ku sheegi karin sabab rumaysad ah, dhibanayaashuna waxaa lagu dhiirigeliyaa inay raadsadaan caawimaad iyo ilaalin.
Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.
O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they commit a clear immorality. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good.
And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.
Ilaha
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