Haweenka, qoyska iyo guurka
Guurka Islaamka waa heshiis u dhexeeya nin iyo haweeney oo ku salaysan oggolaansho labada dhinac, oo leh hadiyad (mahar) ninka ka tago xaaskiisa, markhaatiyaal iyo ogeysiis dadweyne. Quraanku wuxuu ku tilmaamay ilo jacayl, naxariis iyo degenaansho.
Haweeneyda waa inay oggolaato guurka. Guur la qasbay waa aan sax ahayn, Nabigu ﷺ wuxuu haweeney u ogolaaday inay burburiso guur aabbaheed la dhigay iyadoo aan oggolayn. Maharku waa xaaska keligeed. Muslim wuxuu guursan karaa Muslimad, ama haweeney Yuhuud ama Masiixi ah oo daahir ah, Muslimaddana waxay guursataa Muslim.
Qoysas Muslim ah oo badan ayaa ka caawiya dhallinyarada inay kulmaan iyagoo isticmaalaya qaraabada iyo saaxiibada, laakiin doorashadu way iyaga u taal. Guurka la qabanqaabiyay ee labada dhinac ay oggolaadaan wuu ka duwan yahay guurka qasabka ah, kaas oo la mamnuucay. Guurka ka dib, lamaanayaashu waxay isku leeyihiin roonaan iyo ixtiraam, ninkuna wuxuu mas'uul ka yahay nafaqada maaliyadeed.
وَمِنْ ءَايَٰتِهِۦٓ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَٰجًۭا لِّتَسْكُنُوٓا۟ إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةًۭ وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِى ذَٰلِكَ لَءَايَٰتٍۢ لِّقَوْمٍۢ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ ﴿٢١﴾
And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.
وَءَاتُوا۟ ٱلنِّسَآءَ صَدُقَٰتِهِنَّ نِحْلَةًۭ ۚ فَإِن طِبْنَ لَكُمْ عَن شَىْءٍۢ مِّنْهُ نَفْسًۭا فَكُلُوهُ هَنِيٓـًۭٔا مَّرِيٓـًۭٔا ﴿٤﴾
And give the women [upon marriage] their [bridal] gifts graciously. But if they give up willingly to you anything of it, then take it in satisfaction and ease.
وَأَنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْأَيَٰمَىٰ مِنكُمْ وَٱلصَّٰلِحِينَ مِنْ عِبَادِكُمْ وَإِمَآئِكُمْ ۚ إِن يَكُونُوا۟ فُقَرَآءَ يُغْنِهِمُ ٱللَّهُ مِن فَضْلِهِۦ ۗ وَٱللَّهُ وَٰسِعٌ عَلِيمٌۭ ﴿٣٢﴾
And marry the unmarried among you and the righteous among your male slaves and female slaves. If they should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty, and Allah is all-Encompassing and Knowing.
Xadiiska iyo warbixinnada ka dambeeya jawaabkan. Fur lambar si aad ugu akhrido sunnah.com.
Jawaabkani wuxuu raacaa fahamka Sunniga ee caamka ah wuxuuna yahay barasho guud, ma aha fatwo. Meesha Muslimiintu ku kala duwan yihiin, jawaabku sidaas wuu sheegayaa. Ma leedahay su'aal adiga kuu gaar ah? Noogu qor.
